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To whom it may concern I am writing to you regarding my long-term use of your platforms, including

To whom it may concern

I am writing to you regarding my long-term use of your platforms, including AsianDate and related services operating under different brand names.

I am a French resident and have been a paying customer for approximately twelve years. Over this period, I estimate that I have spent close to 300,000 euros on your services, primarily through the purchase of credits for interactions presented as genuine and personal.

I have now established that these interactions were generated through a massive automated messaging system. To date, my account inbox alone contains approximately 600,000 unread messages covering only the last three to four years. In previous years, I had already deleted more than one million similar messages before fully understanding the automated and industrial nature of this system. Such volumes clearly exclude any genuine human interaction.

After recently blocking and deleting hundreds of contacts in order to stop this automated flow, my payment attempts were suddenly rejected without any clear explanation, despite the fact that the same payment methods had always been accepted previously. This sequence strongly suggests an internal account restriction or retaliatory measure following my decision to disengage from the system.

Furthermore, since expressing concerns regarding these practices, I have been subjected to an abnormal and continuous flow of automated messages, occurring at a rate of several messages per minute, including during night hours, which constitutes electronic harassment.

I also wish to formally raise the issue of contacts and profiles repeatedly and unilaterally disappearing from my account without explanation. These sudden disappearances of “persons” with whom paid interactions had already taken place constitute a serious alteration of the service, depriving me of access to content for which I have paid, and strongly suggest non-authentic or artificially managed profiles.

I also note that platforms presented as separate entities (such as ZenDate) appear to share the same customer support representatives and operational structure, indicating centralized management under multiple brand names.

In a spirit of amicable resolution and without prejudice to my rights, I formally request:
- the immediate cessation of all automated and unsolicited communications,
- the immediate cessation of unexplained disappearance, deletion, or replacement of contacts and profiles,
- a clear written explanation of these practices,
- and a proposal for fair and proportionate
-restoration of full and unrestricted access to my account and contacts, or a clear explanation if this is refused,
- financial compensation reflecting the duration, scale, and nature of the practices described above.

If no satisfactory response is provided from receipt of this message, I will have no alternative but to submit this matter to the competent French and European consumer protection authorities, including the DGCCRF, as well as to pursue all other appropriate remedies.

I remain open to a constructive and documented discussion, provided it takes place exclusively in writing.

Sincerely,

Joseph Aflalo

Date of experience: Feb 18, 2026